The situation
In Clark County, a young person in permanent custody faced deep uncertainty about adoption. Though in a stable foster home and strongly bonded with his foster family, he expressed ongoing hesitation—he was torn between wanting a permanent family and fearing what adoption might mean for his connection to his biological roots.
The facilitation
Through a series of Youth-Centered Permanency Roundtables (YCPRT), the youth was given space to explore his feelings in a supportive, nonjudgmental environment. The team listened carefully to his concerns, including fears about changing his name and feeling as though he might be “leaving behind” his biological family. These conversations continued beyond the meetings, with his caseworker building on the trust established during the YCPRT to help the youth reflect on his values, goals, and options for the future.
The outcome
After thoughtful reflection and open dialogue, the youth decided he was ready to move forward with adoption. To honor his biological family while embracing permanency, he chose to change his middle name to his grandmother’s last name. His adoption was finalized on June 9th, marking the beginning of a new chapter rooted in both love and legacy.
*Names and identifying information have been changed for purposes of confidentiality.